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[Opinion] I’m not going back in the closet because I support President Donald J. Trump.

ORLANDO, Fla. (FNN NEWS) – In the summer of 2015, as you might recall, then candidate Donald J. Trump announced he was running for President. Like many, I was ecstatic. However, he was entering a field dominated by establishment Republicans and a space that certainly would most likely elevate Hillary Clinton as the Democratic candidate. Interestingly, with Trump, something resonated in his desire to “Make America Great Again.” We all wanted and hoped for such a rallying call. It was time.

For me, a gay Republican, the obvious choice surprised and disappointed the LGBTQ community…Yet, I not only couldn’t wait to vote for him, I wanted to work on the Trump campaign. This is a story of the journey of my support for President Trump and the ups and downs that support resulted in during the campaign and even today as a member of the LGBTQ community.

Let me begin by dealing with the elephant in the article, as it were: “How can you be gay and be a Republican?”

(If I only had a dollar for every time I was asked that during the last few years.)

 

MY SHORT TIME ACROSS THE AISLE

I was a lifelong registered Republican until the early 2000’s. As I was coming out in 2002, it appeared the Republican Party was so ultra conservative that I looked to the Democratic Party for tolerance and acceptance of my being gay. I, like many in the LGBTQ community, watched as gay people were all but guilted to follow the Democratic Party. I liken it to blindly following lost sheep. Our country was coming out of the tragedy of 9/11 and coming into the space of the mainstream media, in recent years replaced by social media, on accepting people for who they were. Part of the acceptance process would be the beginning of many people seeing gay people differently. Gay people, for so long seen as odd and flamboyant, were finding more high profile places of influence. Everyone from teachers to television celebrities were coming out and giving the gay community a more, well, “normal” appearance to many. Ironically, however, this image transformation didn’t necessarily translate to politics. In fact, a few years back I simply decided the party of tolerance that I gravitated to was intolerant of others who had opinions different than theirs. This framework and background are necessary to understand ultimately how I found my way back to the Republican Party and why I easily supported and continue to support President Donald J. Trump.

 

BECOMING THE ORANGE COUNTY CAMPAIGN CHAIR

In the early fall of 2015, a local journalist had written a story on how Trump was looking to organize his campaign in Orlando–all over Florida, actually. And of course, Florida was a battleground state, the I-4 corridor being the gold crown to winning the presidency. I had just lost my own failed bid for a City Council seat, ironically to an LGBTQ incumbent, and wasn’t sure what would be my next step. I immediately applied to the Republican Party of Orange County for the Chairman role.

A few weeks went by and I assumed someone else had been chosen, but on a hunch, I contacted the local party office and learned that in fact a stack of resumes existed for the role, yet no formal decision had been made on who the Chairperson would be. It was suggested to me there was “no real interest” in organizing for Trump in Orange County. This simply infuriated me. In an effort to move the process along I contacted the Florida State Chairman for Trump, Representative Joe Gruters of Sarasota. After a few weeks of literally bugging Gruters via email and phone, I’d get the role and the real work would begin. There was just one thing: I was openly gay, and herein started the intolerance of the gay community, as well as many Democrats in general, to my being in this role as a gay man.

 

THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY VS. ME

Throughout the past year-and-a-half, we obviously know the ups and downs that existed in the campaign. We know the ultimate results. We now have Donald J. Trump as President of the United States. But there was a price I paid for my support of Trump not measured in numbers, but more in insults and disrespect from the LGBTQ community. A community I had been an activist in for everything from AIDS Walk fundraising, to same sex domestic abuse, to same sex marriage. Ironically, few realize how heavy the vetting was for County Chairs because of the media’s obsession with anything Trump. The campaign knew everything about me… everything (the good, bad and ugly)…including the fact that I was gay. Ultimately, I believe the campaign realized I was a hard worker for causes I believed in and to this day I appreciate everything they did to support me in light of the hate that sometimes came my way. And rest assured… it did.

In June of 2016, much to my surprise, I received a call from the Florida for Trump campaign asking if I would speak at a Trump rally in Kissimmee, Florida. “Me?” I exclaimed. I recall being emotional and excited.

When I asked Jennifer Locetta, the State Director of the campaign at the time, what I was to speak on, her response was simple: “Just tell your story.” So I realized that this would be an opportunity to openly share my support of our now President and that part of that story would be the discussion of my being a gay Republican Trump supporter and ultimately an employee of the Republican National Committee. What many don’t realize is I told very few people I was going to be speaking that day, as I didn’t want to see a rally of hate head towards the campaign in an attempt to sabotage my appearance. Most people found out when they saw me walk on stage. And for those that know me…they know keeping a secret is not easy for me.

In my speech I felt a need to publicly remind all, including those in the LGBTQ community, it was “ok to be gay and support Trump.” The video of that speech to date has received over 22,000 views since it was posted less than a year ago, entitled “Gay Speaker at Donald Trump Rally Calls out Crooked Hillary Clinton.” (I didn’t create the title, but it was on point.)

You see, one of the things I simply couldn’t wrap my head around was why so many gay people feared Trump, yet supported a woman that had a foundation taking money from countries that behead people for being gay. It baffled me. And this just on the heels of the Pulse terrorist attack and tragedy that left 49 lives lost and countless others injured, both physically and emotionally. Here’s a little known fact: then candidate Trump was planning to visit Orlando just days following the Pulse tragedy. I was involved in that planning. Ultimately, it was decided his visit would appear too political–not by Mr. Trump, but local elected officials. He ultimately abandoned that plan as to avoid burdening our already grieving community. I talk about it now because so many in the LGBTQ community never knew his true intentions. Many were displeased that he didn’t visit as the presumed Republican nominee, yet those same critics celebrated when President Obama arrived in Orlando only to use the opportunity, politically, to talk gun control. Hypocrisy at its best.

I remained confused, regarding Hillary, how the gay community could find so much admiration for a woman that had been very public in her belief that marriage was between a man and a woman. That is until she realized the gay community was loud and she needed their voices and votes if being President was ever in her future. President Trump may not agree with gay marriage…I never asked him. But what he clearly supports is the Constitution and the Supreme Court ruling. Hillary hijacked that court ruling as a way to pander to the gay community.

 

THE HATE WAS REAL

Here I was Trump’s only openly gay Chairman, to my knowledge, in the country. And instead of a local gay publication celebrating that any LGBTQ person was leading a Presidential campaign in our community, the editor often took more jabs to make fun of my role verses acknowledging it. Ironically, after the election was over I received a call from the editor of that publication. One I never returned. He was seeking my reaction to a win that only I, as the openly gay Chairman of the campaign, could provide firsthand. I refer to it as journalistic karma. While I did read his recap of the race, it was missing the most critical statement of all… a quote from the openly gay man that ran the Orlando campaign and that never doubted Trump would win the Presidency. “YUGE” fail.

But certainly, that wasn’t the most hate I received from the LGBTQ community. Hundreds of messages and screenshots came my way from some I knew and total strangers. (Actual messages below)

• “You’re doing this for attention.”
• “You are sick and need mental counseling.”
• “I hope you die.”
• “Your 15 minutes ran out long ago you old bitter queen.”
• “There’s no such thing as a gay Republican. Just die.”
• “You are not gay.” (One of my most entertaining messages)
• “You should be in a straight jacket and padded room.”
• “Unlike my friends that died of AIDS, you should for your support of Trump.”
• “Go back to women. Anyone that supports Trump isn’t gay.”
• “I can’t wait for Trump to lose. He’ll have faggot losers like you to blame.”
• “Please move away. You do not represent gay people.”

Some event went so far as to suggest that someone needed to reach out to my family because they felt I was unstable and might harm myself.

What?

As I look back, factoring all that was going on with the campaign, I guess I simply learned to expect the hate from the LGBTQ community and then block it. I compartmentalized the anger in my mind so I could actually get the job done. Only a few people close to me, unless they witnessed the hate on social media themselves, really knew how truly horrible many in the gay community were to me. In fact it was the straight, often very conservative supporters, that came to my defense. I’m not playing the victim card, but it’s important to share the dynamic that was part of the campaign for me personally. What I can say is those few hundred messages of hate were TRUMPED by thousands of messages of support.

 

THE MUST-KNOW TRUTH ABOUT GAY MARRIAGE

The Gay community thinks they are somehow better protected under Democrats. Personally, I just don’t buy it. Our President never campaigned to take away the rights of gay people. I’ve never once, in my multiple times meeting him, felt he was a hater of the gay population in any way. In fact, while I may have been openly gay, there are many gay people that worked on the campaign and in President Trump’s companies. I’d hear things like, “you support a man that wants to make my gay marriage unrecognized.” Statements like this really showed me the power of creating a false narrative of fear. Gay marriage, a Supreme Court ruling, can’t just be overturned. It doesn’t work like that. For gay marriage to be changed and unlawful it would require an entirely new case that the Supreme Court would be willing to hear. That would include the court looking at case studies and previous rulings to formulate an entirely new opinion on the merits of an anti-gay marriage case. Then to ultimately challenge the very decision the court has already ruled. Even conservative judges would not entertain that as an option. For the life of me, I wish more gay people understood these facts versus running scared of something that simply doesn’t exist. The understanding of this issue alone would enlighten many members of the LGBTQ community.

There will be members of the LGBTQ community that read this with anger instead of understanding that it’s okay for members of the gay community to be different in their opinions and beliefs. Sexual orientation is not a political fact, it’s a biological one. I remind you… you can’t “ungay” yourself. If you could, many would. It’s not always been the easiest life to live. Additionally, it’s not fair or reasonable to attack someone for their political views, but we see it on all sides of the aisle every day.

 

LOOKING AHEAD

Moving forward, my hope is to continue working with the local and national Republican Party to try and modify some of their hard line views regarding the LGBTQ community. The platform is far from perfect. But that work begins with building bridges and mending fences and in some small way. I’d like to think that’s what this last year-and-a-half has been about. But above all, as now the President of the Orange County Trump Republican Club and working with Republicans, my hope is that all people will explore their truth with our President. There are steps and actions he will most certainly take that will offend some. I don’t agree with every step he makes. I do, however, support what President Trump stands for. I, like so many, support his position on illegal immigration, his concerns with our trade deficit and our debt, empowering our military like never before and providing veterans the respect they deserve. Simply stated, his focus is on issues that affect all Americans impresses me. For me, just a guy with a Facebook page, that’s important. And honestly, if we could place some of the social issues aside we’ve spent years somehow letting rise to the forefront versus the security and safety of our country…well, imagine the possibilities. Because you see, without a sound, protected country, you don’t have the freedom so many think they truly have.

In the end, it will be the decisions and choices our President makes that truly move our country in a forward unified direction. But to do this, all sides have to want that partnership. It’s like being in a bad relationship that only one person wants to see successful. It’s going to take patience, understanding and compromise. But I have faith in our President and I have faith in the LGBTQ community members that are open and willing to be part of the change. No matter your race, gender, socioeconomic status, political affiliation or sexual orientation: We’re in this together!

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Randy Ross is a political contributor for Florida National News. info@floridanationalnews.com

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