Opinion
[OPINION] What’s Real and What’s NOT? Often the Victim is the Person the Allegation is Wheeled Towards!
Published
8 years agoon
By
Randy RossORLANDO, Fla. (FNN NEWS) – As Americans, we are watching the allegations of sexual misconduct uniting the political and entertainment world in extremely unflattering ways. We have seen media moguls and Oscar winners respectfully destroyed over alleged misconduct. While we all can collectively agree that any type of sexual harassment, misconduct, lewd and lascivious behavior, etc. are unforgivable if not criminal, but what if it’s false? These are allegations, not criminal charges.
What if, in fact, the allegations are strategically designed to interfere with a person’s career or rise? I recently experienced this in a very personal way. I would like to share my experience to open your eyes to how easily an allegation can gain credibility even once confirmed false. Keep in mind, I’m not trying to go after anyone. I’m saying sometimes there is no victim at all. What I’m about to share, my personal experience, only a few people close to me ever knew occurred. I parked the experience away as a baseless attack. I am sharing this seemingly embarrassing falsehood because if it happened to me, a guy with a Facebook page, not a celebrity or elected official, it can happen to anyone.
Approximately four months ago I received a call from my Republican Party of Orange County Chairman Lew Oliver. Oliver, an attorney and never-Trumper, called to tell me he had an interaction on a gay dating site called “Grinder.” He shared with me that he had a private conversation, via messaging, with a person who began by trying to gain his trust to send pics and such. Once he backed down from the request the person then alleged, according to Oliver, that “Randy Ross has an account on here” and continued a tale of how I (Randy Ross) had a history of dating young, sometimes underaged men and would lure them with drugs and alcohol. The person went as far as to suggest I had met someone in a campaign office in March of last year (even though we didn’t open offices until August of 2016) and had taken them to a hotel where I proceeded to drug and rape them.
Of course, I quickly denounced the allegation and Oliver pretty much suggested whether it’s true or not, “I thought you should know these things were being said.” I thanked him and the call ended. Of course, in my head, I was dumbfounded as to how such an outrageous suggestion could be made. Was this the continued cost I burdened being a gay Republican that led the Trump campaign in Orange County? Initially I decided to discard Oliver’s suggestion as yet another failed opportunity to interfere with my determination to remain involved in Republican politics and specifically supporting our president.
Approximately three weeks later I received a message, via Facebook, from a member of the local media. In this dialogue, the editor began to suggest to me that he had sources that had some “pretty serious allegations against you.” Curious what the allegations were, I engaged further with the editor. Wouldn’t you know it, a few responses in the allegations were the same allegations Oliver had suggested to me only a few weeks prior. Allegations Oliver had said were via private messaging directly to him. I, of course, told the editor there was no basis for the allegations, yet that didn’t stop him from making a clear point he would investigate the allegations thoroughly and he wished me well. Now keep in mind that this editor has not been a fan of me for some time. It wouldn’t be the first story he had written about me with baseless suggestions and I was sure it wouldn’t be the last. But this one he seemed adamant to pursue.
Here is his Facebook message to me, from August 14, 2016, verbatim, where he gave me the name of the accuser and the allegation:
“Here’s something that’s NOT fake news. My name is Mitchell Robinsenk…I am a 26 year old openly gay student and I study at Valencia Community College in Winter Park. In March, right after St. Patty’s day I met Randy Ross off of a gay hook up application called ‘Grinder’. What happens between two consenting gay adults is not our business. Except for the fact that Randy got us a motel room and had given me the drug G, and provided me with marijuana.
“When I didn’t want to pursue further he threatened me with his position in the government and said how if I didn’t pursue sexually he would create problems for me. Let me tell you further FACTS! Randy Ross is a perverted disgusting pig who goes on a weekly basis to the Orlando gay bath house. He participates in the most disgusting things. Is this the kind of leader you desire? Further facts…I already contacted the Orlando police department as recently as two weeks ago because apparently two other young guys had been forced to participate in sexual acts against their will with Randy. He also threatened them.
“Who will the police believe? A 50 something or video surveillance at the same motel of three different young guys entering a motel with Randy and two of the three running scared out of the motel. Mr. Ross you may want to get your lawyers ready…
“What’s not a mistake is the sexual harassment/rape accusation that I and two other young gay guys are in the process of filing against your disgusting self. Did you really think you could get away with drugging young guys to that sleazy motel, make them take G and that they wouldn’t rise up to you? (Your) perverted scum that you are…”
By this time the interaction was, to me, borderline delusional. My responses to this person were very consistent, “ridiculous.” The final comment I received that day, after being told he was researching police reports, was, “Your accuser exists. Good luck.” My accuser exist? Good luck? So, this is how the media works? Someone allegedly tosses out an accusation and it’s true? I literally could not believe the extent this so-called journalist had gone to try and collaborate a fake story. I also found the intensity of his belief in the accusation cause for concern.
Almost without pause a few days later I received a phone call from another media outlet wherein the same baseless accusations were being suggested. If these two media outlets had gotten this fabricated story, was I to assume all local media were aware? Of course, I told the writer that the story was false. But it was at this point that I realized this was no longer a silly alleged interaction on a dating app as Oliver had suggested. This was an all-out attempt to attack my character and for lack of a better phrase “put a nail in the coffin” of this relative outsider, Randy Ross, on my rise and work in the Republican Party and as a supporter of President Trump.
If you follow the trail you’d have to believe that someone interacted privately with one person and then started contacting media. But why? What was it I was doing that would allow such an elaborate hoax to be created? Is this really how politics works? People (assuming a source or sources truly existed) can make an allegation and it’s the alleged victims that have the credibility over the person the allegations are wheeled toward?
With both media outlets, one of which suggested they were going to have their “private investigator” research the allegations, I highly encouraged them to research the truth. After over a week, at different times the same day, I received word from both media outlets that it had been determined the allegations were unprovable and were based solely on a source neither, apparently, was able to authenticate.
Fortunately, for me, the various relief efforts I led for Texas, Florida, and Puerto Rico came at the time this unfortunate process was ending, allowing me a much needed distraction. It didn’t mean I was still not confused as to the motivation. Did these people really believe the baseless allegations?
The easy answer: I simply don’t know. What I did know is that our Orange County Republican Party Chairman and two media outlets were vetting the same story, with few differences, painting me as a monster, bathhouse groupie, a druggie and a rapist, none of which were or are true. But, as I’m sure you’ll agree, you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure out the intentions of such an elaborate hoax.
Therefore, when I see stories on the news regarding what amounts to a plethora of alleged victims and allegations I look to intention and motivations. I certainly find the allegations against Judge Moore in the Alabama Senate race, if true, disgusting. I also know, as a victim of fake allegations, it is distinctly possible that the allegations are politically driven and false.
On Sunday, November 12, 2017, I watched Martha Raddatz of ABC News grill White House Counselor to the President, Spokeswoman KelleyAnne Conway about her opinions regarding Judge Moore. Raddatz was like a shark in bloody waters trying to pin Conway down as to render a belief, “does the President support Moore?” Even though the answer was to some allegation that couldn’t be proven, the news anchor wanted Conway to buy into the notion that Mitt Romney’s claim that allegations in politics need not wait for the act to appear criminal and Moore should step aside.
Whether through my personal story or observing the nature of our culture right now, one thing for sure is the media doesn’t need much to create a story. I have given you a firsthand account as to how a story can be created and vetted to make the accuser have the power and the accused, well, rendered helpless. A story can be embellished and interfere with someone’s life, livelihood, relationships…and end with no basis in fact.
Or were we all duped into a baseless allegation by a Liberal force that will stop at nothing to halt the President’s agenda for America? Right here in the I-4 corridor in little old Orlando? This, in a world of never-Trumpers and RINO’s (Republicans in Name Only), seems like a stretch.
I shared this humbling and embarrassing account because I realize, in the grand scheme of things, I’m a small fish in a small pond. You must wonder: If someone would work so diligently as to accuse me of drugging and raping a person, what are the limits? The truth is the waters of the pond are murky. There are bottom feeders looking for any and all opportunities to undermine and destroy those seeking to do better. This takes “if they’re talking about you you must be doing something right” to an entirely new level. In our modern age of social media and mainstream media thirsty in a 24/7 news cycle, we need to be the objective ones. Fake news is real and it can happen to any of us. “No comment,” today simply means you’re guilty when in fact it should mean you just have nothing to say.
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Randy Ross is a political contributor for Florida National News. | social@floridanationalnews.com
Entertainment
Bad Bunny’s Halftime Show Was a Master Class in American Culture
Published
3 months agoon
February 19, 2026A reminder that diversity is not a threat — it is America’s strength.
By The Honorable Rick Singh
Former Orange County Property Appraiser
Bad Bunny’s halftime performance reminded us of something every American needs to hear right now:
We may come from different places, but we share far more in common than we sometimes realize. Our greatest strength has always been our willingness to embrace diversity — not fear it.
As an elected official, I delivered many speeches over the years. But one of the most meaningful moments of my public service was speaking to newly sworn American citizens — individuals who had taken their oath of citizenship just minutes before I addressed them.
I can tell you this: they were some of the proudest Americans I have ever encountered — men and women from every corner of the world, united by one oath and one dream.
For many, English was a second language. For some, this was the first country they had ever traveled to. But the pride in their eyes was unmistakable.
Watching them always brought me back to my own story.
I still remember arriving in America as a 10-year-old after spending my first decade of life in tropical Guyana — and experiencing so many things for the first time: winter in New York City without a coat, running water, electricity, trains, cars, and even an escalator, which absolutely terrified me.
I shared those experiences with them. I also shared my mother’s journey — her strength and sacrifice — which inspired me and reminded me of what so many immigrant families endure with quiet courage.
And I reminded those new Americans of something important:
Be proud of your culture.
Be proud of your food.
Be proud of your faith.
Be proud of your music.
Not only be proud of it — share it.
Share it with your American neighbors and friends, because that’s how we foster harmony and understanding.
When we share our traditions, we don’t just celebrate who we are — we educate. We break down stereotypes. We replace fear with familiarity. And we turn strangers into neighbors.
That is how we grow closer. That is how we build community.
And that brings me back to Bad Bunny.
His performance spoke powerfully to the idea of diversity — and to the universal language that connects all people: music. In many ways, it was world culture presented on one of America’s biggest stages.
It was also a master class in Puerto Rican culture — which I must remind some people is American culture.
Like so much of Latin America and the Caribbean, it also carried a deeper story: slavery and the legacy of indentured laborers, including those brought from India, who cut sugar cane and planted crops that fueled global empires.
When I saw the sugar cane fields in the performance visuals, I was reminded of where I was born — Guyana — where I spent my first ten years of life. My parents were humble sugar cane farmers.
The coconut stand selling fresh coconuts reminded me of Bourda Market in Georgetown.
And the vibrant Latin music took me right back to my childhood in the Bronx — hearing legends like El Gran Combo de Puerto Rico, Tito Puente, Eddie Palmieri, and Iris Chacón playing from apartment windows or speakers on fire escapes.
Different cultures.
Different rhythms.
Different drums from different lands.
But one shared spirit.
That’s America.
And when we embrace that truth, we don’t become weaker — we become stronger.
Because the reality is simple:
Together, we are all American.
Across Latin America and the Caribbean — regardless of language, flag, or heritage — we share lived experiences shaped by common history: agricultural roots, multi-generational homes, the neighborhood bodega or corner shop, struggle and resilience, rhythm and resistance, elders playing dominoes, and families gathering around food and music.
It’s not geography.
It’s identity.
It’s music.
In the end, Bad Bunny delivered something meaningful — not just for Puerto Ricans, but for every immigrant and every family with a story like mine.
His performance wasn’t just music and spectacle. It was a reflection of who we are, where we come from, and what we’ve overcome.
It reminded millions that being American isn’t about looking a certain way or speaking a certain language. It’s about owning your story, celebrating your roots, and contributing that richness to the shared tapestry of this country.
Boricua love, baby — you’ve got to love it.
Opinion
Commentary: Civility as Moral Power: What Gandhi Gave King — and What King Gave America and the World
Published
4 months agoon
January 19, 2026Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. did not merely change laws. He changed the moral tone of a nation.
At a time when America was convulsed by racism, violence, and injustice, Dr. King chose a path many dismissed as weak or naïve: civility, nonviolence, and disciplined love. History proved otherwise. In King’s hands, civility was neither politeness nor passivity. It was moral power.
That power did not arise in isolation. King drew deeply from the life and philosophy of Mahatma Gandhi. While studying theology and social ethics, he encountered Gandhi’s doctrine of satyagraha — the “force of truth.” What struck King most was Gandhi’s insistence that injustice must be resisted, but never with methods that corrupt the soul or mirror the cruelty of the oppressor. King later called Gandhi “the guiding light of our technique of nonviolent social change.”
From India’s struggle against British colonialism to America’s fight against segregation, the moral logic was the same: suffering willingly endured, without hatred or retaliation, can awaken the conscience of a nation. Nonviolence was not weakness; it was moral jiu-jitsu — exposing injustice by refusing to cooperate with it, while refusing to become it.
For King, civility did not mean silence in the face of injustice. In his Letter from Birmingham Jail, he made clear that unjust laws must be broken — openly, lovingly, and with a willingness to accept the penalty. Like Gandhi, King rejected both cowardly submission and violent revolt. His method of nonviolent civil disobedience was precise and intentional: it disrupted injustice while preserving the moral legitimacy of the movement.
This moral lineage from Gandhi to King remains one of the most remarkable transmissions of ethical philosophy in modern history. Different cultures. Different continents. One moral grammar. Both men believed that love is a social force, not merely a private virtue; that hatred multiplies hatred; and that the means we use to pursue justice shape the society we ultimately create.
When children were attacked by fire hoses in Birmingham and peaceful marchers were beaten on the Edmund Pettus Bridge, it was not rage that moved the conscience of the nation. It was the devastating contrast between the dignity of the protesters and the brutality of their oppressors. Civility gave the movement credibility. Nonviolence gave it legitimacy. Moral discipline gave it victory.
Neither Gandhi nor King was “nice” in the shallow sense. Both condemned injustice relentlessly. Both disrupted the comfort of the powerful. Yet neither surrendered to cruelty or dehumanization. They understood a hard truth: a movement that loses its soul cannot save a society.
Today, in an age of outrage, humiliation, and political tribalism, their shared example speaks with renewed urgency. We cancel rather than persuade. We humiliate rather than debate. We dehumanize rather than disagree — and we call it authenticity.
Gandhi and King would have rejected this moral downgrade.
They would remind us:
That cruelty is not courage.
That rage is not righteousness.
That humiliation is not justice.
Gandhi lit the torch. King carried it across an ocean. Now it rests in our hands.
To honor them is not merely to quote them once a year. It is to practice what they practiced: to resist injustice without surrendering our humanity, to speak with moral clarity without moral cruelty, and to pursue change without poisoning the future with hatred.
Their revolution was not only political.
It was moral.
And it remains ours.
Hon. Rick Singh is a former Orange County property appraiser and a civic leader in Central Florida. He writes on ethics, public service, and democratic culture.
Opinion
OPINION: Puerto Rican Political Power in Florida Faces Decline Post-2024 Losses
Published
1 year agoon
January 10, 2025By
Willie DavidThe 2024 elections marked a troubling turning point for Puerto Rican political representation in Florida. What was once a growing force of influence in state and national politics now faces a steep decline, raising alarms about the future of Puerto Rican voices in government.
In 2016, our community achieved historic milestones: Darren Soto became the first Puerto Rican from Florida elected to the U.S. Congress, Victor Torres won a seat in the Florida Senate, and four Puerto Ricans—John Cortes, Amy Mercado, René Plasencia, and Bob Cortes—held seats in the Florida State House. This wave of representation was a proud moment for Puerto Ricans, a sign that our voices were finally being heard at the highest levels.
2016 Representation Snapshot:
- 1 U.S. Representative Seat
- 1 Florida State Senate Seat
- 4 Florida State House Seats
Fast forward to 2025, and the numbers tell a much different story:
- 1 U.S. Representative Seat (Darren Soto)
- 0 Florida State Senate Seats
- 2 Florida State House Seats (Johanna López and Susan Plasencia)
The losses in 2024 have decimated our influence in state government. The Florida State Senate, once home to a Puerto Rican voice, is now silent. The reduction in House seats has further diminished our ability to shape policy and advocate for our community.
This is a moment for reflection and action. As a former Puerto Rican Florida State Representative, I understand the hard work it takes to elevate our community’s concerns and ensure they are heard. But these latest setbacks demonstrate that we cannot afford complacency.
We must:
- Prioritize leadership development by identifying and mentoring the next generation of Puerto Rican leaders.
- Strengthen voter engagement efforts to increase turnout and political awareness within our community.
- Build coalitions across Florida to amplify our collective voice and work toward shared goals.
- Focus on unity, setting aside partisan divides to protect and grow Puerto Rican representation.
Puerto Ricans in Florida contribute significantly to the state’s economy, culture, and community development. Yet, without strong political representation, our ability to advocate for critical issues—such as disaster recovery, housing, healthcare, and education—is severely hampered.
The time to act is now. If we fail to address this decline, the consequences for Puerto Rican communities across Florida could be dire. Let us remember that our representation is not just about holding titles but about driving meaningful change for the people we serve. Together, we can rebuild and ensure that Puerto Rican political power not only survives but thrives for future generations.
Daisy Morales
Former Florida State Representative
Advocate for Puerto Rican Leadership and Progress
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